giovedì 10 novembre 2011
What Is Meditation?
Is meditation a new way to be healthy and maintain well-being? Maybe, but really, what is it exactly? And, how does this very old human activity work? Meditation, according to Wikipedia, is a practice, or a family of human practices focused on your mind and in relationship with the body. Through these practices, people try to relax and gain a new state of consciousness. Meditation can help you in order to highlight your life goals, or increase your skills to contemplate the universe, or to be calm and more concentrated on your activity.
Several religions are working with different practices of meditation. One way to meditate is by singing particular songs or mantra. The mantra is a refrain repeated continuously, that makes a sound capable to create spiritual transformation. In some oriental way, in India, Tibet or South East Asia, mantra could be just a vowel sound or a syllabic sound. In other religions, it is a prayed repeated many times, often singing, like in a Catholic monastery. The Catholic pray for the Virgin Mary, and the Rosary, is in fact, a kind of mantra. The Muslims have a spiritual meditation called Sufism. Also in this case there is a repetition of the name of God, or an emblematic dance, very famous all around the word. The dance of the whirling Dervish is a hypnotic and fascinating performance. Dervish is another name for the practitioner in the old Sufism. In this dance, for hours are whirling the Dervishes by themselves, finding some kind of spiritual trance.
A Buddhism Zen is another interesting way to meditate. They called the meditation zazen (literally seated meditation). In this Buddhist way, the practitioner is sitting down on a cushion with his legs crossed in a full-lotus position, or half-lotus. They remain, this way for hours, motionless in this position, and they alternate this meditation with time of walking meditation.
The oriental meditations are different from the western meditation for the different goals assigned by the master. In western countries the goal is to concentrate your attention on some specific topics or thing. In oriental meditations the goal is frequently the absence of thought. In the zazen way, the master could say, “Meditate is not something new to do. You just need to learn how do nothing”. So, to meditate in this way, you don't need to learn something new, rather, you must forget everything you learned and forget also the same instructions to do this.
Meditation is an activity that came to the past and now it is practicing in a new way and with different goals. In the last century, meditation helped people to be more calm, less stressed, relaxed, and to find better life. Some scientist have investigated different elements about the effect of meditate. For example, some kinds of meditation are increasing the production of well-being hormones in the body. Scientist have also demonstrated that meditation increases the production of endorphin in the brain. Endorphin is a hormone that could play a big role in maintaining your well-being.
Finally meditation is re-discovering in the last years to reduce stress, increase happiness and emotional stability. Now meditattion is turning into a modern healthy activity. Many spa, and beauty center are now proposing different kind of meditations experiences.
People who listen talking about meditation, are thinking in some strange or complicated activity. If my audience is composed by young people, maybe they could be more stunned or hesitant. For this kind of people, it is good to remind then, several human activities have the same characteristic of meditation, but we don't call them by the same name. For example, some people are very passionate in drawing, so when they are very concentrated in their activity a strange effect could happened. Sometime people lose the perception of the time, they forget every task or appointment. Otherwise for hours, in some discotheque, people are listening to house music mixed to stroboscopic light. The result is a kind of collective trance. Yet, some athletes or actors, before their performances are using different way to be concentrate and focusing in their goals. All of these people appear exactly like a Tibetan monk in mediation. For that, meditation is an excellent way to gain goals and bring you a more healthy life, what more do you expect?
lunedì 24 ottobre 2011
A special friend.
Before I tell you the story, I need to fix some assumptions and premises:
I have been in Seattle since march and actually I miss my Italian friends a lot. I was born in Italy on the same bed where I slept the most part of my life. Although living in a foreign country is not exactly a new experience for me. When I was 21 years old I lived three years in Peru and I appreciate this time of my life, because I was very young; also because Peru is a very special country and maybe because between, Italy and South America share the same “Latin” culture.
I moved to Seattle for love and in April Sara and I got married. My first time in Seattle, my energy and focus was to learn English. Also I like walking, a lot. For that my “entrance” to the local culture are all my body between the head to my feet. Since July my English developing skills are helping me to have more conversations and understand people pretty good, So I was thinking, “I'm ready to find a new friends!”
I took my first idea from Italy. Sure, I thought, the coffee bar could be a good place to meet new people! Suddenly I started going in to the coffee bar close to my home every day. After one week I took inventory: no one one person met, no one recognized me, but I had consumed a lot of coffee and I had spent a lot of money: so, my conclusion was that, the coffee bar is not a good place to meet new people. Maybe it could be a delightful place to drink some delicious things with people who one had met in another place.
After that I spent some more weeks to thinking about my goal: how I can meet new people? What is the way to make friend in this city? In July, I became a volunteer for some non-profit Organizations. I met a lot of people and I tried to tell them about me and politics, travel and how different my country is. Oh, excuse me, I forgot to explain: I'm a very talkative person if I can speak my own language! The reactions to my tendency to talk were different, but not one of them positive. Some people after talking with me for two minute would me gesture to their clock and say “I'm so sorry, I need to go!” Some people just looked at clock and they simply went going on.
Maybe I need more time. I thought, maybe my English is still too bad; maybe here there is no time to talk with friends; maybe because of all the reasons above, it is so hard make new friends.
One day I saw a person, maybe a woman. She was crouching down on the sidewalk, her head bent over a book. The book was a very old book with yellow pages, the kind of paper that smells dusty, a book that you can find stored in a old trunk. I found her clothes also dirty and ripped, but unexpected, without bad odor. On the floor in front of her, leaned, a little sign that was hand-written and also old. I don't remember what the sign said, but it was clearly a request of begging.
My action was mechanical, I took one dollar from my pocket and I gave it, to her.
In this moment and just a second before I extracted my hand from the pocket, she was raising her head and smiling, at me. She said; “thank you!” I was a little embarrassed and pretty surprised, and for that I gave her more attention. She was not a woman, she was a very young girl, so beautiful with two smart big, clear eyes and a precious smile.
In this moment many thought were going on around my head! Why was such a young and smart girl on the street? Why was she asking for help? Where was she having food? Where was she sleeping?
I needed some second to return on my self, just on time to say; “Hello, my name is Riccardo; I'm from Italy!” I said while I thought: Oh man! come on, you can speak something more, something more smart!. And she: “Oh nice. Nice to met you, Riccardo-from-Italy, I'm Betty, from Connecticut.
Since July I meet Bettytwo or three times a week. Every time we talk a little more than before. We talk about our different lives. Our first conversations was short, a little and with mutual embarrassment. You know, an old foreign man who is talking with a young homeless girl could generate a lot of bad ideas. But we continue to talk, and day by day our conversations are more deeper, more close, also sometime we brushed; now we are less scared. Now our “Goodbye” is changing in “See you soon!”
Walking home now I'm very excited when I'm looking her still to far. After talking with her, I feel very happy. My soul is improving at the same moment as my English.
I don't know what deep level our friendship can reach. Some days I want to help her, but still I can't imagine exactly how. Otherwise every day she is helping me, without knowing about that.
So I believe that Betty really is my first friend in this country. The most unexpected and pretty strange friend, although certain, a very important friend to me.
lunedì 10 ottobre 2011
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domenica 25 settembre 2011
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martedì 20 settembre 2011
Scritta a cavallo di due mondi
venerdì 2 settembre 2011
Siatol con la esse in corsivo, sbrisciata come solo i romagnoli sanno, forse doveva essere nella East Toast … pardon Coast, ma il cielo era sempre nuvolo, così l'hanno spostata dall'altra parte, che più a West di così … si può solo nuotare. A Siatol i salmoni saltano dappertutto, compreso quelli già trapassati del mercato del pesce, che nerboruti ragazzi si lanciano per l'immancabile foto ricordo.
martedì 2 agosto 2011
Happy Birthday
Poesia para ti (26 gennaio 2011)
Today is sunny & could | Sole sulla mia terra | |
Today is sunny on my land, sunny but so could Today I still belive more in our love Today I think even more in our life together I miss her, I miss the sunshine of my soul (because she is that) like my land under the damp fog I know, she now is my land, my food, my brethe, my song I don't know what vill I be in the future for you I know that anything will be it will take all my soul Sunny and could, sometimes foggy, but always there, forever with you. | Oggi c'è un bel sole sulla mia terra soleggiata e fredda Oggi mi sono svegliato troppo tardi per parlare col mio amore Oggi credo ancora di più nel nostro amore Oggi penso ancora di più alla nostra vita insieme Lei mi manca, mi manca il sole della mia anima, come la mia terra sotto l'umida nebbia Io so, Lei adesso è la mia terra, il mio cibo, il mio respiro, la mia canzone Io non so, nel futuro cosa potrò essere per Lei so solo che qualsiasi cosa sarà prenderà tutta la mia anima Soleggiata e fredda, a volte nebbiosa, ma per sempre lì per sempre con Lei |
sabato 14 maggio 2011
Nuovo Sito di Arco
domenica 13 marzo 2011
21 anni
martedì 1 marzo 2011
ultimi posti... maschere, rinascita, cambiamento
martedì 22 febbraio 2011
Le maschere della rinascita
Che occorre ripartire, risorgere, rinascere, ormai è chiaro. In ogni caso occorre cambiare.
giovedì 10 febbraio 2011
martedì 8 febbraio 2011
Poesia dei dubbi del cazzo
Sto vivendo una vita falsa
Non faccio, non decido, nulla.
Il nulla si è impossessato della mia mente
Vorrei urlare a questo mondo
vorrei gridare, vorrei dire
vorrei evaporare tutte le croste
vorrei sciogliere i nodi
un'anima delirante vorrei diventare
eppure Lei è lì, che aspetta
aspetta le mie resuscitate responsabilità
aspetta le mie inattaccabili decisioni
vuole futuri certi Lei, sicuri e certi.
E io? Io voglio, io devo
Io dovrei, io vorrei
Io dovrei decidermi a volere!
Eppoi?
questo mondo più delirante di me
incerto persino sulla sua fine che,
certamente per altro ci sarà solo
per noi, poveri affittuari cosmici
e ancora
il mio sangue che ribolle inquieto
nonostante i veleni chimici
perchè non essere così
semplicemente e supinamente
quello che naturalmente siamo?
Perchè poi, la coscienza di quello che siamo
riflettendo su quello che è e quello che sarà
s'attorciglia stretta stretta sul suo pensare
e ti lascia esausto,
steso come un feto sopra un letto
di vetro. Così trasparente che la mattina
ti coglie così, sospeso e in mezzo
incerto verso ogni dove,
appena sveglio e già così enormemente stanco